“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Did i become numb or lost feelings at all?

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Hello Guys,

Since i entered to NC with my ex i started dating a chick for one month.

Its fun with her but i don't feel anything and really don't care about her.
She get frustrated i won't commit only to her and she keeps asking where are we. sometimes she cries about stupid things and i just want her to leave me alone. we not even communicating on the whatsapp like old time because i don't feel it. to tell the truth she's not doing it to me ,i don't feel excited.

I realize now how my ex felt about me , now i totally understand the situation she was , but! unlike her i don't want to hurt this girl. i like to keep her as a fvck buddy but she's too serious and want's to get into relationship. is it me that i became a robot or its the girl?

Joe.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is a tough one. Like you said OP women hurt men..... like it's no different than the daily routine of taking a pee. But we as men of strong moral character generally don't want to hurt a woman if she hasn't done anything to us to make her deserve it.

I would say this: call her on the phone or meet up with her somewhere and tell her "You know you are a really great person and I have had a blast hanging out with you. (List/reflect on a few good moments you guys had). But after giving it long hours of thought, I do not see us as a good long term fit. This doesn't come easy for me but it's the right thing to be honest with you. I don't play games with peoples' emotions like a lot of folks do. " If you want you could also tell her you met someone else. That may get her to the anger stage and over you quicker.
 
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If you see she wants more then stop this. Don't hurt her. There are enough girls out there ready to be f*** buddy so find one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zorg198 said:
unlike her i don't want to hurt this girl. i like to keep her as a fvck buddy [...]
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Degrading her to that honorable status will hurt her more than anything else.
 
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Its not that i don't like her its something inside.
She's not doing it to me , horrible ? no. i'm honest.

Joe.
 
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