"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did anyone here actually watch the movie "Don Juan DeMarco" featuring Johny Depp?

SeymourCake

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Here's a scene from the movie.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQiRtJ6uumk

What did you think about the movie when you saw it? Can someone really be as seductive as Don Juan DeMarco in real life or is this only a movie, everyone is acting crap?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuanit0

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No, you can't get to have women as easily as Johnny Depp had them in the movie!

But, despite this ,the movie is great!

He was acting like a real man defending the honour of his father and his women he's been with! Didn't lie about anything (except for the time he needed to leave the psychiatric clinic) and he was polite and romantic without being AFC!

What I've kept from this movie is this:

Every true lover knows that the moment of greatest satisfaction comes when ecstasy is long over, and he beholds before him the flower which has blossomed beneath his touch!

It's all about having something nice, enhanting your life and not everything is around sex! That's what women are for anyway...
 

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The original Don Juan story was all about sex though. He impersonates someone else and lies to someone else about marriage for starters and all for sex. Then he kills the angry father of a woman he dishonored. And basically the story involves him lying to get sex from everyone until he gets killed.
 

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ArcBound said:
The original Don Juan story was all about sex though. He impersonates someone else and lies to someone else about marriage for starters and all for sex. Then he kills the angry father of a woman he dishonored. And basically the story involves him lying to get sex from everyone until he gets killed.
I've seen that movie too, the guy I think was not attractive at all, yet he knew how to talk to women! I remember a scene at a beach where he was playing with 2 women at the same time, telling lies to both of them!

He was the Dj who knew how to talk! :p
 

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Of course he was the DJ. :crackup:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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