"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did anyone here actually watch the movie "Don Juan DeMarco" featuring Johny Depp?

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Here's a scene from the movie.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQiRtJ6uumk

What did you think about the movie when you saw it? Can someone really be as seductive as Don Juan DeMarco in real life or is this only a movie, everyone is acting crap?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No, you can't get to have women as easily as Johnny Depp had them in the movie!

But, despite this ,the movie is great!

He was acting like a real man defending the honour of his father and his women he's been with! Didn't lie about anything (except for the time he needed to leave the psychiatric clinic) and he was polite and romantic without being AFC!

What I've kept from this movie is this:

Every true lover knows that the moment of greatest satisfaction comes when ecstasy is long over, and he beholds before him the flower which has blossomed beneath his touch!

It's all about having something nice, enhanting your life and not everything is around sex! That's what women are for anyway...
 
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The original Don Juan story was all about sex though. He impersonates someone else and lies to someone else about marriage for starters and all for sex. Then he kills the angry father of a woman he dishonored. And basically the story involves him lying to get sex from everyone until he gets killed.
 
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ArcBound said:
The original Don Juan story was all about sex though. He impersonates someone else and lies to someone else about marriage for starters and all for sex. Then he kills the angry father of a woman he dishonored. And basically the story involves him lying to get sex from everyone until he gets killed.
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I've seen that movie too, the guy I think was not attractive at all, yet he knew how to talk to women! I remember a scene at a beach where he was playing with 2 women at the same time, telling lies to both of them!

He was the Dj who knew how to talk! :p
 
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Of course he was the DJ. :crackup:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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