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I approached a real hottie the other day and she said:


"I don't know you, so I have not why I should talk to you"


can someone translate this?

I bailed with that phrase.

Should I keep talking and walking next to a chick that is walking(shopping) like she was and tells me a line like that ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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High strung girls... hmmm...

Originally posted by NoMoreMisterNiceGuy
I approached a real hottie the other day and she said:


"I don't know you, so I have not why I should talk to you"


can someone translate this?

I bailed with that phrase.

Should I keep talking and walking next to a chick that is walking(shopping) like she was and tells me a line like that ?

U tell her " why should u talk to me? umm.. because i came up to you and want to meet you.. is there something wrong with that?" if she is REALLY egotistical she will say something like "yes, dont you think that its wierd that you are a stranger and you come up to me out of nowhere?" ... then u say " well i like meeting people, but i see that you dont.. (pause) ... your loss, cheerz"

Chicks like this are *****es and a waste of time... eventhough i personally LIKE this kind of girl cause its a "challenge" to me, but in a normall case with a normall guy (you) i think that thats what u should do;) move on to the next girl that wont be so much of a "challenge":rolleyes: ... picking up girls like that (egotistical) comes after ALOT of experiance with LESS egotistical girls, so start low, and work your way up ;)

Good luck for the future...


Laterz...
 
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Re: High strung girls... hmmm...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
U tell her " why should u talk to me? umm.. because i came up to you and want to meet you.. is there something wrong with that?" if she is REALLY egotistical she will say something like "yes, dont you think that its wierd that you are a stranger and you come up to me out of nowhere?" ... then u say " well i like meeting people, but i see that you dont.. (pause) ... your loss, cheerz"

Chicks like this are *****es and a waste of time... eventhough i personally LIKE this kind of girl cause its a "challenge" to me, but in a normall case with a normall guy (you) i think that thats what u should do;) move on to the next girl that wont be so much of a "challenge":rolleyes: ... picking up girls like that (egotistical) comes after ALOT of experiance with LESS egotistical girls, so start low, and work your way up ;)

Good luck for the future...


Laterz...



Well, I consider myself quite advanced on this subject on picking up chicks ...
I've never kept talking to chicks that respond that way, I always have bailed out, and I think somethimes I should not ...


so you DO keep talkin to chicks like this?


I told her the same line you told me but she kept walking and didn't say anything ..should I walk next to her and keep talking to her besides that ?
 

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Its HER loss...

Originally posted by NoMoreMisterNiceGuy
Well, I consider myself quite advanced on this subject on picking up chicks ...
I've never kept talking to chicks that respond that way, I always have bailed out, and I think somethimes I should not ...


so you DO keep talkin to chicks like this?


I told her the same line you told me but she kept walking and didn't say anything ..should I walk next to her and keep talking to her besides that ?

hmmm.....

Well if she keeps on walking and shown NO interest at all, then just walk away and go find yourself a different girl... but the trick here, is that when u DO talk to this kind of girl, u need to have an ATTITUDE when speaking to her... give her the impression that she is LUCKY that you approached her... and just like she has a b!tchy attitude, you must take a jerky attitude with her, there kind of girls are normally attracted to the "bad-boy" type of guy, unless she is just NOT single and is offish to every other random guy.

If after she show u no interest and keeps on walking away u STILL run after her, that makes u out to be this desperate guy, you give her a ego boost deluxe, AND u give her all the power by "chasing" her like that! So if she just shows no interests and starts walking away, then u do the same, because its HER LOSS, and i'm sure that within the next 5 minutes u'll find another attractive girl to mack;)


Laterz...
 

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"I don't know you, so I have not why I should talk to you"

My response: 'and there's no reason why you shouldn't'

I usually wait for a girl to give me some type of 'single' before approaching in order to keep this type of reaction to a minimum.
Girls get so fed up being approaching all the time, that they will say something rude to get rid of you quickly.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by biker_gixxer
"I don't know you, so I have not why I should talk to you"

My response: 'and there's no reason why you shouldn't'

I usually wait for a girl to give me some type of 'single' before approaching in order to keep this type of reaction to a minimum.
Girls get so fed up being approaching all the time, that they will say something rude to ged rid of you quickly.

1) waiting for THEM to give u a signal? lol.. if thats the way you go about things, then u will not be approaching even HALF of the girls that you COULD/SHOULD be approaching!


2) Girls will only get fed up with you and try and get rid of u if u act like any other guy or afc would... thats the beauty of being a Don Juan, you are different, and girls are attracted to that;)


Laterz...
 

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oh, you must think that i wait for a girl to hold up a big colorful sign that says 'COME TALK TO ME BIKER'! Come on bro, being a Master DJ (and i use that term losely) you know what I'm saying. Well, at least I HOPE you do.

Girls will only get fed up with you and try and get rid of u if u act like any other guy or afc would...

Really, that's the ONLY reason huh? LOL, I see I'm going to have to educate yet another one...

:cool:
 

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lol....

biker_gixxer: yes, i did understand what u meant about the signal part, just clariffying that for others not to get the wrong idea...

And when i said " Girls will only get fed up with you and try and get rid of u if u act like any other guy or afc would... " i meant it as that if u go up to the girl and act all shy and nervous and stalkerish, then she will probably try avoid you and tell you to f*ckoff, in the nicest way possible;)

And as far as you thinking that you need to "educate me", i highly dought that, but whatever floats your boat:p, big boy. :D


Laterz...
 

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Nice job in clarifying yourself ~ªêQµïTª$~, I'm impressed. You get a gold star. Make sure you wear it when you approach so the girls now how much of a DJ you really are. lol
 

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The Gold Star...

Originally posted by biker_gixxer
Nice job in clarifying yourself ~ªêQµïTª$~, I'm impressed. You get a gold star. Make sure you wear it when you approach so the girls now how much of a DJ you really are. lol
only ONE gold-star? :rolleyes: *sigh*
 

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Originally posted by NoMoreMisterNiceGuy
I approached a real hottie the other day and she said:


"I don't know you, so I have not why I should talk to you"


can someone translate this?

I bailed with that phrase.

Should I keep talking and walking next to a chick that is walking(shopping) like she was and tells me a line like that ?
All this means is that you had not done a good enough job of gaining rapport with her so you still came off as a stranger.
 
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Re: Re: Dictionary ********

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
All this means is that you had not done a good enough job of gaining rapport with her so you still came off as a stranger.
so you suggest that I .....
 

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Re: Re: Re: Dictionary ********

Originally posted by NoMoreMisterNiceGuy
so you suggest that I .....
Tell her:
"Sorry-- I mistook you for a woman with a personality" and walk away. You never know, she might just chase *you* down!:D
 
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Dictionary ********

Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
Tell her:
"Sorry-- I mistook you for a woman with a personality" and walk away. You never know, she might just chase *you* down!:D
good thats a good one thou
 

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i think its just me but i wouldn't try to pick up a chick who's "shopping". Because i noticed that chicks get irritated when someone talks to them when they are shopping especially someone they don't know. Its like people talking to a guy who's hunting. Silence is Gold.
 

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"Nice job in clarifying yourself ~ªêQµïTª$~, I'm impressed. You get a gold star. Make sure you wear it when you approach so the girls now how much of a DJ you really are. lol"


That was a terrible joke.
 

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aequitas(your name is very annoying how you made it) you racked up 595 posts and you've been here for only one month. Idle hands to the extreme.
 
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Originally posted by hyeonkim0805
i think its just me but i wouldn't try to pick up a chick who's "shopping". Because i noticed that chicks get irritated when someone talks to them when they are shopping especially someone they don't know. Its like people talking to a guy who's hunting. Silence is Gold.

I think its me too but I don't wanna grow old and let life pass me by and think "I should have done several things I haven't like ...... oh gee many things! and Im 70!"
 

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Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
"Nice job in clarifying yourself ~ªêQµïTª$~, I'm impressed. You get a gold star. Make sure you wear it when you approach so the girls now how much of a DJ you really are. lol"


That was a terrible joke.
i'll be sure to add your critque to my 'who asked you' list.
 

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Originally posted by BigWillyStyle
aequitas(your name is very annoying how you made it) you racked up 595 posts and you've been here for only one month.
He reached the "master" status just in one month with a rate of 11 posts per day!!!

Nothing against him, but his name is annoying and hard to say.
 

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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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