You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Her pupils will shrink, I believe. Look it up on google. Google knows everything.Shapoopie said:What exactly are you looking for when people say a girls' eyes dialate when she likes you?
Ummm... or you can just look in the mirror and turn the lights on/off.snareknight08 said:No, actually the pupils get really big. I know the maturity level is pretty good here so I will post the best way for you teo experience dialated pupils without ever saying a word to a female (or even being around one). Okay, go in your bathroom (it doesn't matter how much light there is regardless of what you know about pupils dialating because of light). Get a little lotion and some tissues and look in the mirror at your eyes while you are doing your thing. You will have dialated pupils and it also proves it happens when you are arounsed. You won't see a girl's pupils doing it unless they are getting wet over the type of KINO you are giving or just your speech patterns. Well, have fun trying it out to see for yourself. It's not too hard to do.
Snare
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.