"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
dialated eyes?!
- Thread starter Shapoopie
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Her pupils will shrink, I believe. Look it up on google. Google knows everything.Shapoopie said:What exactly are you looking for when people say a girls' eyes dialate when she likes you?
Ummm... or you can just look in the mirror and turn the lights on/off.snareknight08 said:No, actually the pupils get really big. I know the maturity level is pretty good here so I will post the best way for you teo experience dialated pupils without ever saying a word to a female (or even being around one). Okay, go in your bathroom (it doesn't matter how much light there is regardless of what you know about pupils dialating because of light). Get a little lotion and some tissues and look in the mirror at your eyes while you are doing your thing. You will have dialated pupils and it also proves it happens when you are arounsed. You won't see a girl's pupils doing it unless they are getting wet over the type of KINO you are giving or just your speech patterns. Well, have fun trying it out to see for yourself. It's not too hard to do.
Snare
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
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