"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
dialated eyes?!
- Thread starter Shapoopie
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Her pupils will shrink, I believe. Look it up on google. Google knows everything.Shapoopie said:What exactly are you looking for when people say a girls' eyes dialate when she likes you?
Ummm... or you can just look in the mirror and turn the lights on/off.snareknight08 said:No, actually the pupils get really big. I know the maturity level is pretty good here so I will post the best way for you teo experience dialated pupils without ever saying a word to a female (or even being around one). Okay, go in your bathroom (it doesn't matter how much light there is regardless of what you know about pupils dialating because of light). Get a little lotion and some tissues and look in the mirror at your eyes while you are doing your thing. You will have dialated pupils and it also proves it happens when you are arounsed. You won't see a girl's pupils doing it unless they are getting wet over the type of KINO you are giving or just your speech patterns. Well, have fun trying it out to see for yourself. It's not too hard to do.
Snare
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
-Damian