Destroying The Playa -Haters

[ashman1]

waht do you do when you've got a set open and some other guy comes in and stats to out-game you ? or worse yet starts neging YOU ! weither on purpose or not , how does the DJ destroy the player-hater ? how do you keep this guy from blowing you out ? i think this is the BIGGEST problem i have . do you guys have any suggestions ?

 

[Telos]

In that situation if he has better game than you, there is really nothing you can do in the moment. Move to another set or break off for awhile until he leaves. Maybe answer your phone and walk off.

If you choose to stay, the best way to counter someone like that is to increase the energy level as much as possible and attempt to divert attention from him back to you through dramatic storytelling or anything lengthy that will keep him from chiming in and regaining control of the interaction. If he slips a neg in there, don't even acknowledge his comment and continue as if he never said a word.

He will either get 1. Bored or 2. Realize that you control the interaction. At which point he will then leave.

 

[ashman1]

Nice !

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Just ignore it and walk off. Tell the girl it was nice meeting you. If you were able to create some interest in her she might come back for you.

 

[JahGlory]

I assume you are already running good game. Ignore him . comp[eetely. The more you do this the more he will react to you and the more she will see your side of things and ignore him to - or blow u off completely and look like the biggest groupie ***** around. She doesn't want this, so stay focused.

 

[ready123]

yea, agree w/ the above posts, except don't eject yourself. from the very beginning, DON'T REACT to the guy, and keep going with whatever you were doing. if he comes in, and you look at him, the girl will follow your eyes to him and then you've lost the frame. so ignore the guy at the beginning, as if he isn't even there. then keep gaming. have more presence than him - be louder, more grounded, use your body language. then once he's in your frame and reacting to you, you can befriend him for a few seconds, tell him he's cool, and then go back to your girl. or you can AMOG him in front of the girl by poking him in the stomach and telling him he reminds you of your annoying little cousin, or some sht like that

basically once you subcommunicate to the guy he's lower value than you (by not reacting to him), he's not gonna be able to do sht anymore and he's either gonna stand there like a passive idiot or gonna walk away in failure. you're then free to do whatever you want