"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Destroying The Playa -Haters

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waht do you do when you've got a set open and some other guy comes in and stats to out-game you ? or worse yet starts neging YOU ! weither on purpose or not , how does the DJ destroy the player-hater ? how do you keep this guy from blowing you out ? i think this is the BIGGEST problem i have . do you guys have any suggestions ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In that situation if he has better game than you, there is really nothing you can do in the moment. Move to another set or break off for awhile until he leaves. Maybe answer your phone and walk off.

If you choose to stay, the best way to counter someone like that is to increase the energy level as much as possible and attempt to divert attention from him back to you through dramatic storytelling or anything lengthy that will keep him from chiming in and regaining control of the interaction. If he slips a neg in there, don't even acknowledge his comment and continue as if he never said a word.

He will either get 1. Bored or 2. Realize that you control the interaction. At which point he will then leave.
 
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Just ignore it and walk off. Tell the girl it was nice meeting you. If you were able to create some interest in her she might come back for you.
 
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I assume you are already running good game. Ignore him . comp[eetely. The more you do this the more he will react to you and the more she will see your side of things and ignore him to - or blow u off completely and look like the biggest groupie ***** around. She doesn't want this, so stay focused.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yea, agree w/ the above posts, except don't eject yourself. from the very beginning, DON'T REACT to the guy, and keep going with whatever you were doing. if he comes in, and you look at him, the girl will follow your eyes to him and then you've lost the frame. so ignore the guy at the beginning, as if he isn't even there. then keep gaming. have more presence than him - be louder, more grounded, use your body language. then once he's in your frame and reacting to you, you can befriend him for a few seconds, tell him he's cool, and then go back to your girl. or you can AMOG him in front of the girl by poking him in the stomach and telling him he reminds you of your annoying little cousin, or some sht like that

basically once you subcommunicate to the guy he's lower value than you (by not reacting to him), he's not gonna be able to do sht anymore and he's either gonna stand there like a passive idiot or gonna walk away in failure. you're then free to do whatever you want
 
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