"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Destroying The Playa -Haters

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waht do you do when you've got a set open and some other guy comes in and stats to out-game you ? or worse yet starts neging YOU ! weither on purpose or not , how does the DJ destroy the player-hater ? how do you keep this guy from blowing you out ? i think this is the BIGGEST problem i have . do you guys have any suggestions ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In that situation if he has better game than you, there is really nothing you can do in the moment. Move to another set or break off for awhile until he leaves. Maybe answer your phone and walk off.

If you choose to stay, the best way to counter someone like that is to increase the energy level as much as possible and attempt to divert attention from him back to you through dramatic storytelling or anything lengthy that will keep him from chiming in and regaining control of the interaction. If he slips a neg in there, don't even acknowledge his comment and continue as if he never said a word.

He will either get 1. Bored or 2. Realize that you control the interaction. At which point he will then leave.
 
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Just ignore it and walk off. Tell the girl it was nice meeting you. If you were able to create some interest in her she might come back for you.
 
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I assume you are already running good game. Ignore him . comp[eetely. The more you do this the more he will react to you and the more she will see your side of things and ignore him to - or blow u off completely and look like the biggest groupie ***** around. She doesn't want this, so stay focused.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yea, agree w/ the above posts, except don't eject yourself. from the very beginning, DON'T REACT to the guy, and keep going with whatever you were doing. if he comes in, and you look at him, the girl will follow your eyes to him and then you've lost the frame. so ignore the guy at the beginning, as if he isn't even there. then keep gaming. have more presence than him - be louder, more grounded, use your body language. then once he's in your frame and reacting to you, you can befriend him for a few seconds, tell him he's cool, and then go back to your girl. or you can AMOG him in front of the girl by poking him in the stomach and telling him he reminds you of your annoying little cousin, or some sht like that

basically once you subcommunicate to the guy he's lower value than you (by not reacting to him), he's not gonna be able to do sht anymore and he's either gonna stand there like a passive idiot or gonna walk away in failure. you're then free to do whatever you want
 
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