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desperate measures. Alcholicism

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I need your guys help badly. I am dead end in my own tracks and I have nothing else to offer. My dad drinks way too much.

some background info: he used to smoke alot, until he got a heart attack and a bypass surgery, then he quit smoking, but he always have drank and chewed tabacco, I tried every possible thing that came to my mind. i talked to him, i tried getting him to do exercise maybe that would influence his health. i even fought him(argued) to a point where we were swearing to each other, hes close to his 60s so id never hit him. but he was abusive to my mom 10 years ago until my older brother gave him a black eye, since then he never laid a hand on anything. and now my brothers moved out, i took their spot. im the 'bigger' person in the family. so after end his shift, he comes home drunk 4 in the morning, swearing etc. hes the aggressive drunk type. angered very easily. Last night i guess he couldnt open the second door, didnt have access to a key so he was phoning the house and slammin the door, me and my mother opend the door and he kept swearing for 3 min. i finally snapped cuz i wanted to sleep and i had a exam 8 am 4 hours later. so i told him to stfu and go to bed. finally our conversation led into a arugment again, we started swearing to each other, "no fuk you!" "you drunk bastard" etc..

and hes soo uneducated, he would counter my statements "no you're drunk," "no you drink everyday" so i tried 'scaring' him. i grabbed his colar and kinda said in a yelling voice forced into a wishper "you ever ****ing come home drunk again i swear you wont ever ****ing find me or mom again, you ****ing remember this"

that didnt work either as he wasnt 100percent sober.
so i dont know what to do, this has been going on and on.

its a known problem through out his family, a few of his brothers are dead, one death was cuz to Alcoholism. his two other brothers drink like water.

I just wanna be here for my parents and wanna look after them, thats all, but i dont know how to approach this.

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My dad was an alcoholic, the best thing he did was admit himself into a care facility. I'm pretty sure alcoholics are terrified of withdrawal symptoms, and if they stop cold turkey it might kill them. So I would suggest that you "force" him to admit to a facility where he will get professional help. I tried to do it on my own, but it just doesn't work. I used more "force" btw and I was smaller and probably around 12. Just make him admit that he has a problem and take him to a clinic, he will not listen to his own son and alcohol is probably crowding his judgment. If he still has problems after rehab then I would just let it go, it's his life and he screwed it up. He chose alcohol over his family and didn't have the maturity to end it. Some people just don't want help from others.
 

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wow.

so i really cant do nothing.. this is the end i guess.. wow
 

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wow.. i just had a huge talk with my brother and he filled me.

i dont wanna explain everything but its HUGE cycle. huge,
like it goes back to my grandpa and his brothers.. treated my side of the family like ****, etc.. my uncle was an alcholic drank himself then got hit by a subway train... my brother is an alcholic.. it goes down, both my Other living uncles drink like mad. only one has control himself, the other uncle has NO control. HIs son which is my cousin. developed schizophrenia.

so, its basicly me and my older brother who broke the cylce, perhaps. but wow
as if the past has that much effect,

imma go buy a fuking bottle
 

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wow.. i just had a huge talk with my brother and he filled me.

i dont wanna explain everything but its HUGE cycle. huge,
like it goes back to my grandpa and his brothers.. treated my side of the family like ****, etc.. my uncle was an alcholic drank himself then got hit by a subway train... my brother is an alcholic.. it goes down, both my Other living uncles drink like mad. only one has control himself, the other uncle has NO control. HIs son which is my cousin. developed schizophrenia.

so, its basicly me and my older brother who broke the cylce, perhaps. but wow
as if the past has that much effect,

imma go buy a fuking bottle
Don't do that. My mom used to tell me to not end up like my father. Seriously be glad that you're better than them. I personally will never ever be an alcoholic, it ends up hurting family and is just a miserable life style. If they don't have enough self-control over their life, well f*ck them since they got what they deserve. If you tried helping and they won't listen then it's over. Just take care of your mother, if things get bad move out with her.
 

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fuk im too shocked...

way too shocked. it all makes sense and the worst part is i CANT DO SH!t ABOUT IT. **** man
 

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Nip/Tuck said:
Don't do that. My mom used to tell me to not end up like my father. Seriously be glad that you're better than them. I personally will never ever be an alcoholic, it ends up hurting family and is just a miserable life style. If they don't have enough self-control over their life, well f*ck them since they got what they deserve. If you tried helping and they won't listen then it's over. Just take care of your mother, if things get bad move out with her.
im not gonna drink, i was just expressing my feelings.

i am better than all. i drink but in moderate. i can go for months without feeling it. im just shocked man at age 17. this sh1t is like hittin the fan for me.
 

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im not gonna drink, i was just expressing my feelings.

i am better than all. i drink but in moderate. i can go for months without feeling it. im just shocked man at age 17. this sh1t is like hittin the fan for me.
Yeah I bet, it's so weird that some adults are more immature than teenagers. It's sad but life is a b*tch and it ain't fair. You can complain or just accept the facts and move on.
 

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Yeah I bet, it's so weird that some adults are more immature than teenagers. It's sad but life is a b*tch and it ain't fair. You can complain or just accept the facts and move on.
im not gonna think about it too much, for sure gotta pick that book up desinova was sayin
 
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