"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Desert Fox's Transformation Journal

Desert Fox

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For some reason my thread wasn't created, but I'm going to start this journal here to track my progress.

GOAL: Look like a Spartan

160-170 lbs
10-12% bodyfat


CURRENT:

185-188 lbs
~20-25% bodyfat (estimate based on a scale)


DIET:

Meal 1: Eggs + Milk + Cereal + Fruit
Meal 2: not sure about this one
Meal 3: Salad + Lots of grilled chicken breast
Meal 4: not sure about this one
Meal 5: Salad + Lots of grilled chicken breast

I'm in college so I don't know what to do about the portable means since the dining halls are only open for a few hours and I'm in class about 8 hours a day including laboratory classes. Any advice is appreciated. The dorm room also has no cooking tools other than a knife, fork, and spoons. I have a few disposable bowls as well so I guess I can make some tuna, but I gotta go buy that sometime. More ideas welcome.


ROUTINE:

Week 1:
Monday - Workout A
Wednesday -Workout B
Friday - Workout A

Week 2:
Monday - Workout B
Wednesday - Workout A
Friday - Workout B

Warm up sets:
2 sets of Workout A or B
Set 1 - 50% weight
Set 2 - 75% weight

Workout A:
3x5 Squat
3x5 Bench Press
1x5 Deadlift
3x10 Weighted Slow Decline Sit-ups

Workout B:
3x5 Squat
3x5 Standing military press
3x5 Pendlay or Bent Rows
2x8 Chin-ups

Every week make it a goal to increase each of your lifts by 2.5%

Alright I will probably be hurting the first few weeks, so this week I'm going to scout the gym and find the best times to go workout, getting supplies, finding time in my school schedule, etc. Then next week I will start lifting and beginning this routine.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Awesome goal. Interesting too because since I watched 300 I've also been aspiring to look like a spartan :p. Everytime I work out I imagine it.

Also it would be nice if you would post what your current weight and bodyfat are. And i'm assuming current, diet and routine are blank because you don't do anything?
 

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Thanks for the advice and links Quagmire. I will probably check my progress every month like those threads said.

Current is updated. I don't "look fat" right now, but I feel weak as hell and it's flabby if you poke me. :( I need more muscle. I used to be an obese kid and lost a lot of weight in high school, but I didn't lose weight the right way (I just ran miles and miles) and became a skinny kid. Then I ate terribly and became a skinny fat kid. So now I am going to lose weight the right way.

Diet/Routine coming soon after I read up.
 

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Good luck brother

We will be scrutinizing your every action! I also recommend all of the links that Quagmire911 posted.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Quagmire911 said:
Don't trust scales for bf, they are generally way off.
Yeah it's all I have though. I don't want to pay for a professional body fat test. I think if I measure my BF under the same conditions every time and it goes down, then I'm all good because I just want to see some improvement.

Updated routine and meal plan. I need a lot of help on the meal plan. I have a bunch of nuts in my cupboard that I can bring with me to class in a baggy. I also can get some whey protein because I have milk too. I just need a shaker. Hmmm last thing I need, which is most important is to actually stick to this workout schedule so the protein can actually be used for something.
 

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Shakes are 3 raw eggs+two scoops of whey+water, milk will more than likely cause indigestion and will be a lot more likely to lead to fat gain, not muscle gain.

And you don't need a bf test or anything like that, the only thing that matters is how it looks in the mirror. This is the best tracker off all. Makesure to take some pictures right at the start and then once a month or so.

At this stage measuring your waist circumference and doing that once every two weeks would probably work well too.
 

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Quagmire911 said:
Shakes are 3 raw eggs+two scoops of whey+water, milk will more than likely cause indigestion and will be a lot more likely to lead to fat gain, not muscle gain.

And you don't need a bf test or anything like that, the only thing that matters is how it looks in the mirror. This is the best tracker off all. Makesure to take some pictures right at the start and then once a month or so.

At this stage measuring your waist circumference and doing that once every two weeks would probably work well too.
Hmm good call on that. Yeah I'll need to get some whey. All this stuff seems impossible without whey.

I also need to start sleeping better because I don't wake up early enough to get a good big breakfast in on most days.

I'll use this week to really discipline myself and update this thread with my sleeping schedule. I'll try to get in the sack by 12AM latest.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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