"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Desert Fox's Transformation Journal

Desert Fox

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For some reason my thread wasn't created, but I'm going to start this journal here to track my progress.

GOAL: Look like a Spartan

160-170 lbs
10-12% bodyfat


CURRENT:

185-188 lbs
~20-25% bodyfat (estimate based on a scale)


DIET:

Meal 1: Eggs + Milk + Cereal + Fruit
Meal 2: not sure about this one
Meal 3: Salad + Lots of grilled chicken breast
Meal 4: not sure about this one
Meal 5: Salad + Lots of grilled chicken breast

I'm in college so I don't know what to do about the portable means since the dining halls are only open for a few hours and I'm in class about 8 hours a day including laboratory classes. Any advice is appreciated. The dorm room also has no cooking tools other than a knife, fork, and spoons. I have a few disposable bowls as well so I guess I can make some tuna, but I gotta go buy that sometime. More ideas welcome.


ROUTINE:

Week 1:
Monday - Workout A
Wednesday -Workout B
Friday - Workout A

Week 2:
Monday - Workout B
Wednesday - Workout A
Friday - Workout B

Warm up sets:
2 sets of Workout A or B
Set 1 - 50% weight
Set 2 - 75% weight

Workout A:
3x5 Squat
3x5 Bench Press
1x5 Deadlift
3x10 Weighted Slow Decline Sit-ups

Workout B:
3x5 Squat
3x5 Standing military press
3x5 Pendlay or Bent Rows
2x8 Chin-ups

Every week make it a goal to increase each of your lifts by 2.5%

Alright I will probably be hurting the first few weeks, so this week I'm going to scout the gym and find the best times to go workout, getting supplies, finding time in my school schedule, etc. Then next week I will start lifting and beginning this routine.
 
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Awesome goal. Interesting too because since I watched 300 I've also been aspiring to look like a spartan :p. Everytime I work out I imagine it.

Also it would be nice if you would post what your current weight and bodyfat are. And i'm assuming current, diet and routine are blank because you don't do anything?
 

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Thanks for the advice and links Quagmire. I will probably check my progress every month like those threads said.

Current is updated. I don't "look fat" right now, but I feel weak as hell and it's flabby if you poke me. :( I need more muscle. I used to be an obese kid and lost a lot of weight in high school, but I didn't lose weight the right way (I just ran miles and miles) and became a skinny kid. Then I ate terribly and became a skinny fat kid. So now I am going to lose weight the right way.

Diet/Routine coming soon after I read up.
 

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Good luck brother

We will be scrutinizing your every action! I also recommend all of the links that Quagmire911 posted.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quagmire911 said:
Don't trust scales for bf, they are generally way off.
Yeah it's all I have though. I don't want to pay for a professional body fat test. I think if I measure my BF under the same conditions every time and it goes down, then I'm all good because I just want to see some improvement.

Updated routine and meal plan. I need a lot of help on the meal plan. I have a bunch of nuts in my cupboard that I can bring with me to class in a baggy. I also can get some whey protein because I have milk too. I just need a shaker. Hmmm last thing I need, which is most important is to actually stick to this workout schedule so the protein can actually be used for something.
 

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Shakes are 3 raw eggs+two scoops of whey+water, milk will more than likely cause indigestion and will be a lot more likely to lead to fat gain, not muscle gain.

And you don't need a bf test or anything like that, the only thing that matters is how it looks in the mirror. This is the best tracker off all. Makesure to take some pictures right at the start and then once a month or so.

At this stage measuring your waist circumference and doing that once every two weeks would probably work well too.
 

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Quagmire911 said:
Shakes are 3 raw eggs+two scoops of whey+water, milk will more than likely cause indigestion and will be a lot more likely to lead to fat gain, not muscle gain.

And you don't need a bf test or anything like that, the only thing that matters is how it looks in the mirror. This is the best tracker off all. Makesure to take some pictures right at the start and then once a month or so.

At this stage measuring your waist circumference and doing that once every two weeks would probably work well too.
Hmm good call on that. Yeah I'll need to get some whey. All this stuff seems impossible without whey.

I also need to start sleeping better because I don't wake up early enough to get a good big breakfast in on most days.

I'll use this week to really discipline myself and update this thread with my sleeping schedule. I'll try to get in the sack by 12AM latest.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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