Helter Skelter
Master Don Juan
Helter
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Describe yourself in 1 word
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Antidisestablishmentarianist
Just kidding.
"Variety" lol... like Albertsons.
Just kidding.
"Variety" lol... like Albertsons.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
unique
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m4a1
Senior Don Juan
What's a word for saying that there are countless great words that describe a person?
TDOT
Don Juan
OK I THINK HE WON THIS ONE.
THIS ONE REALLY MADE ME LAUGH HARD.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TheMainMan
Don Juan
good to see that Irony still has'nt made it into your country's lexis.
Mate, when your country have your own language I look forward to being able to criticise or appraise your use of it.
Until then just follow us Brits, as always.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
Throwed.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Determined
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Homosapien
SpeedRunner
Don Juan
speed 
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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DOGG!!!!!! "bow wow"
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AC/DC
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Ugly