"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Describe the type of characters you constantly you run into on Facebook

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I'll start with a couple:

1.) The Chick whose always in a brand new relationship every two or three years

2.) The guy who just broken up on bad terms with his ex and constantly talking smack about the people talking behind his back.

3.) The Single Mom with a few baby daddies perhaps? Always showing foody pics, gossips and girly statements

4.) The Meme guy, probably a Bachelor or a reformed player constantly showing funny memes

5.) The Baseball coach, basketball coach or Ex Jock reliving his glory days

6.) The guy whose always at bars with his friends on the weekends

7.) The retired guy or woman shouting his political views

8.) The artistic goth/ Punk freak showing his new creation to behold.

Anything else I'm missing here? Let me know
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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None because I discontinued using that trash a long time ago.

Stop using it for a month to break your cycle of addiction to social media and you'll never go back once you realize how much better your life is without it.
 

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None because I discontinued using that trash a long time ago.

Stop using it for a month to break your cycle of addiction to social media and you'll never go back once you realize how much better your life is without it.
do you use messenger, viber, email..., or other com software ? Or only txt, voice/voice mail and SS.
 

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None because I discontinued using that trash a long time ago.

Stop using it for a month to break your cycle of addiction to social media and you'll never go back once you realize how much better your life is without it.
I believe it's in how you use Facebook that matters. If you're using it to gossip and look at stupid crap...then that's one thing.

But if you're using that to socialize and group with like minded individuals and bond, have a sense of positive connection from an online platform...then yes, I'm all for it.

Me personally, aside from this place....I'm a Veteran, I go to a particular Facebook group Veteran group everyday and listen to their stories and advice....I love hearing from those guys from time to time.
 
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