"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Derren Brown on Science of Attraction.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pretty inconclusive, surprised B faired so well, would have took it a bit more serious if the sample had been much bigger.
I agree with improving communication and confidence as positive factors
 

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my own opinion, is that the teste is not so reliable.
there's one chick who's 22.
we can all agree that what a 18 y/o looking in a man/relationship, is not the same as a 22y/o.

but i can really agree with Derren Brown that the natural guy, gets the best result everytime, IF, he can be confident in himself, in is life etc.
that's for me the purpose of DJing. being the 'yourself' you always wanted to be, to game/seduce/attract, the chick you want !
 
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