"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Derren Brown on Science of Attraction.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pretty inconclusive, surprised B faired so well, would have took it a bit more serious if the sample had been much bigger.
I agree with improving communication and confidence as positive factors
 

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my own opinion, is that the teste is not so reliable.
there's one chick who's 22.
we can all agree that what a 18 y/o looking in a man/relationship, is not the same as a 22y/o.

but i can really agree with Derren Brown that the natural guy, gets the best result everytime, IF, he can be confident in himself, in is life etc.
that's for me the purpose of DJing. being the 'yourself' you always wanted to be, to game/seduce/attract, the chick you want !
 
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