"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Derek Vitalio's Seduction Science System

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I read one of those articles as you come into the site, 'Smile Your Way To The Lay'. I reckon its a great tip by the way, that doesn't seem to be emphasised nearly enough on sosuave.
Anyway, i kept reading, and got through to the advert for Derek Vitalio's series 'The Seduction Science System' 2nd edition
Sounds good stuff, not cheap though ($44.95). I'm half tempted but at the same time bit wary cos these things aren't always what they're made out to be.
So has anyone here bought it themselves? If so, would you reccomend it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think I've read the first three of his ebooks.

I'm not going to review them for you but thank god I didn't pay for them.

I don't recommend at all. I am not sure about his revised versions.

I recommend products by Doc Love, Swingcat and DeAngelo.

These are my big three


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I wouldn't recomend any of them read my post the get laid bible
it has all the stuff you need in the lifestyle to get laid and its free!!!

so my big 3 would be: Juggler(for the way I talk), Shark(for the mindset) and gunwitch(for realizing and using sexual state)
 

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What's up. GGFB? Long time no hear from.

I've already mentioned Mike Pilinski's High Status Male stuff over it in your bootcamp thread a bit. The other one that really made a difference in my game was Dating Insider, which is mostly about charisma. You're witty enough that DeAngelo's "****y+ funny" approach can work well, but overall, I find his stuff quite elementary. I think his latest ebook is only about $20 US, which ain't a bad price.

Swingcat's stuff appears to be very good, from the excerpts I've read of it. Gunwitch is definitely good, too. There is a sort of compilation that features stuff from several of these guys in one ebook that looks pretty worthwhile. But at some point, a lot of them end up covering the same bases over and over again.

It appears to me that keeping an upbeat aura is underemphasized here, as well as the matter of how one presents and carries himself in general. As I've said time and time again, the first impression you make sets the stage for everything else, and can render the matter of approaching almost a non-issue. :D

The real point is there's no substitute for experience and informed observation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've already mentioned Mike Pilinski's High Status Male stuff over it in your bootcamp thread a bit.
How could I forget, this is very good too. Well recommended.

Kaine
 

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Cheers fro the responses
I'll be having a look through the stuff everyones suggested on this thread, seems to be pretty unanimous verdict that Derek Vitalio's stuff isn't worth the money, think my dosh is staying safely in my pocket.
Was quite surprised though cos i was well impressed by his quick tip. As Bonhomme said, keeping an upbeat aura isn't emphasised enough on here. I once looked at this site called becomeaplayer.com, it really emphasised the importance of always smiling when you're chatting to a girl, say everything with a smile, said just following this simple tip could double your success.
And its true when you think about it, how guys who are always positive, always upbeat, are able to draw people to them, make people feel good.
Its something i'm making sure to remember myself from niow on.
 
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