"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Derek Vitalio's Seduction Science System

GodsGiftToFatBirds

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I read one of those articles as you come into the site, 'Smile Your Way To The Lay'. I reckon its a great tip by the way, that doesn't seem to be emphasised nearly enough on sosuave.
Anyway, i kept reading, and got through to the advert for Derek Vitalio's series 'The Seduction Science System' 2nd edition
Sounds good stuff, not cheap though ($44.95). I'm half tempted but at the same time bit wary cos these things aren't always what they're made out to be.
So has anyone here bought it themselves? If so, would you reccomend it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think I've read the first three of his ebooks.

I'm not going to review them for you but thank god I didn't pay for them.

I don't recommend at all. I am not sure about his revised versions.

I recommend products by Doc Love, Swingcat and DeAngelo.

These are my big three


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I wouldn't recomend any of them read my post the get laid bible
it has all the stuff you need in the lifestyle to get laid and its free!!!

so my big 3 would be: Juggler(for the way I talk), Shark(for the mindset) and gunwitch(for realizing and using sexual state)
 

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What's up. GGFB? Long time no hear from.

I've already mentioned Mike Pilinski's High Status Male stuff over it in your bootcamp thread a bit. The other one that really made a difference in my game was Dating Insider, which is mostly about charisma. You're witty enough that DeAngelo's "****y+ funny" approach can work well, but overall, I find his stuff quite elementary. I think his latest ebook is only about $20 US, which ain't a bad price.

Swingcat's stuff appears to be very good, from the excerpts I've read of it. Gunwitch is definitely good, too. There is a sort of compilation that features stuff from several of these guys in one ebook that looks pretty worthwhile. But at some point, a lot of them end up covering the same bases over and over again.

It appears to me that keeping an upbeat aura is underemphasized here, as well as the matter of how one presents and carries himself in general. As I've said time and time again, the first impression you make sets the stage for everything else, and can render the matter of approaching almost a non-issue. :D

The real point is there's no substitute for experience and informed observation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've already mentioned Mike Pilinski's High Status Male stuff over it in your bootcamp thread a bit.
How could I forget, this is very good too. Well recommended.

Kaine
 

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Cheers fro the responses
I'll be having a look through the stuff everyones suggested on this thread, seems to be pretty unanimous verdict that Derek Vitalio's stuff isn't worth the money, think my dosh is staying safely in my pocket.
Was quite surprised though cos i was well impressed by his quick tip. As Bonhomme said, keeping an upbeat aura isn't emphasised enough on here. I once looked at this site called becomeaplayer.com, it really emphasised the importance of always smiling when you're chatting to a girl, say everything with a smile, said just following this simple tip could double your success.
And its true when you think about it, how guys who are always positive, always upbeat, are able to draw people to them, make people feel good.
Its something i'm making sure to remember myself from niow on.
 
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