"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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depressed newbie needs some major help :\

rawsync

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wussup fellow DJs? I've found out about this site from a friend of mine about 5 months ago and I've been reading it daily along with DJ bible. I've always been a nice guy that always gets "i just want to be friends with you, i dont wanna get into a relationship" type of **** from a girl. :( Over the summer I've meet this one girl and we went out once but we talked for 3 months until I just left her out of my life to date another chick for 2 months, after i broke up with that chick i went to her and we talked, went to a concert together and everything was fine, then one day she gets on my nerves about some stupid argument so i **** her off for whole damn 2 months. within those 2 months i started talking with her best friend but never hooked up with her nor never had intention to go out wit her for a long time since she was too damn immature. so when i was supposed to hook up with her friend for new years i kinda seemed that she was jealous at her friend and that she wanted me so bad. so i kinda ****ed her friend off for new years and spent it with her. we were over my place watching a movie while two of my best friends got really damn drunk. heres the best part... that night she slept over my house in my bed but she didnt want to do anything since she started talking with some kid who is 2 years younger than her and because of her friend.. she didnt wanna hurt her. i was cool with her reasons not to do anything and i was set, but then next day she tells me all the **** how she misses my body by hers and how she wants to see me again soon (that was on 2nd) on 3rd which was friday night she goes out with that kid and hooks up with him and im like wtf? so on saturday night we talk online and she begs me to be her friend and how she doesnt like me more than a friend then tells me how ive changed her life, how i have place in her heart and all the other bull****. few hours later she starts sending me few pictures of us and starts talking how she likes me and **** but then next day she tells my friend how she doesnt want to have a relationship with me.... im confused and i think she just lead me on for new years and doesnt want to have anything with me and im thinking of ****ing her off... what do you guys think how should i act with her and what should i do? :)

thankx
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rawsync

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i met her in may, went out with other chick in july till september, started talking again with her september-october and then fvcked her off by end of the october and started talking again with her in december...
 

McKindley

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Next her man. She's just a drama queen. Find a girl who won't flake out on you every time you talk to her.
 

rawsync

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Originally posted by McKindley
Next her man. She's just a drama queen. Find a girl who won't flake out on you every time you talk to her.
you're right man :) ill do so
 
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Do not have 'girls' as friends - period - talk to them on occasion if you must but no sooner than 3 months apart --- or tell her to hook you up with one of her female friends -- this is the only reason to talk to her!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Pimp-sicle

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**** that shiat man!! This ***** is an attention ***** and she's pulling your chain real hard!!! She's playing you dog, you better way up and NEXT her dumbass!! Don't answer her calls, don't SMS her and get her outta your life!! Go meet new girls!!


PIMP
 

DankNuggs

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should have railed her on New Years....She obviously wanted it....who cares about the rest and all the relationship crap...fock it....
 
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