"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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depressed newbie needs some major help :\

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wussup fellow DJs? I've found out about this site from a friend of mine about 5 months ago and I've been reading it daily along with DJ bible. I've always been a nice guy that always gets "i just want to be friends with you, i dont wanna get into a relationship" type of **** from a girl. :( Over the summer I've meet this one girl and we went out once but we talked for 3 months until I just left her out of my life to date another chick for 2 months, after i broke up with that chick i went to her and we talked, went to a concert together and everything was fine, then one day she gets on my nerves about some stupid argument so i **** her off for whole damn 2 months. within those 2 months i started talking with her best friend but never hooked up with her nor never had intention to go out wit her for a long time since she was too damn immature. so when i was supposed to hook up with her friend for new years i kinda seemed that she was jealous at her friend and that she wanted me so bad. so i kinda ****ed her friend off for new years and spent it with her. we were over my place watching a movie while two of my best friends got really damn drunk. heres the best part... that night she slept over my house in my bed but she didnt want to do anything since she started talking with some kid who is 2 years younger than her and because of her friend.. she didnt wanna hurt her. i was cool with her reasons not to do anything and i was set, but then next day she tells me all the **** how she misses my body by hers and how she wants to see me again soon (that was on 2nd) on 3rd which was friday night she goes out with that kid and hooks up with him and im like wtf? so on saturday night we talk online and she begs me to be her friend and how she doesnt like me more than a friend then tells me how ive changed her life, how i have place in her heart and all the other bull****. few hours later she starts sending me few pictures of us and starts talking how she likes me and **** but then next day she tells my friend how she doesnt want to have a relationship with me.... im confused and i think she just lead me on for new years and doesnt want to have anything with me and im thinking of ****ing her off... what do you guys think how should i act with her and what should i do? :)

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i met her in may, went out with other chick in july till september, started talking again with her september-october and then fvcked her off by end of the october and started talking again with her in december...
 

McKindley

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Next her man. She's just a drama queen. Find a girl who won't flake out on you every time you talk to her.
 

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Originally posted by McKindley
Next her man. She's just a drama queen. Find a girl who won't flake out on you every time you talk to her.
you're right man :) ill do so
 
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Do not have 'girls' as friends - period - talk to them on occasion if you must but no sooner than 3 months apart --- or tell her to hook you up with one of her female friends -- this is the only reason to talk to her!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Pimp-sicle

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**** that shiat man!! This ***** is an attention ***** and she's pulling your chain real hard!!! She's playing you dog, you better way up and NEXT her dumbass!! Don't answer her calls, don't SMS her and get her outta your life!! Go meet new girls!!


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should have railed her on New Years....She obviously wanted it....who cares about the rest and all the relationship crap...fock it....
 
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