"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gongxia649

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i have this female friend. had sex with her but never told her shes my gf. everytime i chat with her on msn and i asked her. how are you, she always says "not good", "so so". the point is she never says "im good.". then i always ask her why?. she says she doesn't know why shes sad.
why does she act like this? or thats how she is? i dont get anythihg.
can any MDJ respond to this question.

thanks in advanced.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'll try to keep this as succinct as possible.

Don't become an emotional tampon. Don't try to solve all her problems for her. Don't supplicate/allow her to control you.

look, if she doesn't "know why she's sad" then perhaps she just wants some sympathy from her friend - to give herself an ego boost after her 'jerk' guy has treated her badly....or perhaps she's justs an AW who likes to play games. who knows.

maybe she's just a psycho.


The point is this:
Becoming a girl's personal councilor won't make her attracted to you...actually in most cases its quite the opposite.
 
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How many times have you had intercourse with this female ?

I would suggest you go and rail that again before its too late. That is why she is sad man, you haven't been satisfying her needs.
 

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Originally posted by Shiz Nizzle
How many times have you had intercourse with this female ?

I would suggest you go and rail that again before its too late. That is why she is sad man, you haven't been satisfying her needs.

2 times in 1 month and a half. stood her up 2 times...went to the movie 1.
 

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Originally posted by Shiz Nizzle
How many times have you had intercourse with this female ?

I would suggest you go and rail that again before its too late. That is why she is sad man, you haven't been satisfying her needs.
this is the correct answer

she also needs you to pull her hair and **** her ass

if she doesn't get better within a month, **** her harder
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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