"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JoeSchmoe05

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Any tips on how to treat girls who may be a bit depressed? Very cute, petite, adorable, 8/10... just seems to lack confidence and rather shy. Afraid to be too C/F with her... not sure what to do...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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spider_007

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DON'T. LOT OF DRAMA, AND EMOTIONAL SH1T, THAT YOU DON'T NEED.


but if you don't want to listen to me then:

-just make sure you'r not her "emotional tampon" as they say. It is wery easy to fall in the friends zone with that kind of gurl. Especially if she starts to confide in you...
-show her your interasted, but take your time.
-it's ok to be c/f, just be suttle.
 

penguin

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I hope you enjoy drama, because if you go down this road, it will be a living soap opera.
 

djbr

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I bet that if she wasn't an 8 as you said, you wouldn't be here asking this.

Drama SUCKS dude.

And sometimes it is hard to tell the difference that a girl who has real problems or just want attention. Also, it's not a good idea to try either.
 
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