"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JoeSchmoe05

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Any tips on how to treat girls who may be a bit depressed? Very cute, petite, adorable, 8/10... just seems to lack confidence and rather shy. Afraid to be too C/F with her... not sure what to do...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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spider_007

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DON'T. LOT OF DRAMA, AND EMOTIONAL SH1T, THAT YOU DON'T NEED.


but if you don't want to listen to me then:

-just make sure you'r not her "emotional tampon" as they say. It is wery easy to fall in the friends zone with that kind of gurl. Especially if she starts to confide in you...
-show her your interasted, but take your time.
-it's ok to be c/f, just be suttle.
 

penguin

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I hope you enjoy drama, because if you go down this road, it will be a living soap opera.
 

djbr

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I bet that if she wasn't an 8 as you said, you wouldn't be here asking this.

Drama SUCKS dude.

And sometimes it is hard to tell the difference that a girl who has real problems or just want attention. Also, it's not a good idea to try either.
 
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