"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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April_Infinite

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I was reading "The Art of Seduction", noticing the different types of desires people have.

I definitely crave attention, I must have not gotten enough as a child or something. Thus I can't stand it when I have to chase a girl when DJ, all the attention is being focused on her.

Of course, now being a rAFC, I know not to do this, but now to satisfy my needs, I need to learn how to cause girls to chase me; I can't have it any other way.

Besides coquettish behavior (I'm working on that...), what do you guys use to cause a girl to pursue you relentlessly, or what do you recommend I do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can anyone say "Fatal Attraction?" Be careful what you wish for. :nono:
 
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haha, is having a girl who adores you that bad?

Even if it was, my afc personality would cause that overcharged adoration to level out...
 
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