"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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April_Infinite

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I was reading "The Art of Seduction", noticing the different types of desires people have.

I definitely crave attention, I must have not gotten enough as a child or something. Thus I can't stand it when I have to chase a girl when DJ, all the attention is being focused on her.

Of course, now being a rAFC, I know not to do this, but now to satisfy my needs, I need to learn how to cause girls to chase me; I can't have it any other way.

Besides coquettish behavior (I'm working on that...), what do you guys use to cause a girl to pursue you relentlessly, or what do you recommend I do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can anyone say "Fatal Attraction?" Be careful what you wish for. :nono:
 

April_Infinite

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haha, is having a girl who adores you that bad?

Even if it was, my afc personality would cause that overcharged adoration to level out...
 
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