"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
deodorant
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
OBSYDYN
Don Juan
the fresh flavor one
OBSYDYN
Don Juan
i found the spray works a lot better than the bar.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
If not old spice red zone works well and AX (i like touch).
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
For the armpits, go for a non-perfumed ani-perspirant and invest in some good cologne (eu de toilete sp?). Also stay away from the mainstream JP Gaultier, Hugo Boss, Hilfiger etc. I recommend Very Valentino it has a fresh lemon smell, chicks love it and very very very few people know about it.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
edmond
Senior Don Juan
Remember less is better.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
micon said:
:rockon:
Ya these two are great....but if you just wear them alone that yah...but if you have other colone that your gonna put over yourself the smells well get mixed
its not that expensive...12 bucks...btw calvin klein eternity deoderant is amazing too
donjuanjovi
Senior Don Juan
Sh!t smells like cologne, and lasts all day.
I actually get compliments on the scent from chicks (thinking it was cologne).
And before Centaurion goes into cardiac arrest. lol
I'm a cologne wh0re.
... so take this reccomendation w. more than a H.S. wannabe thug's credit.