"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
deodorant
- Thread starter highkid
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
OBSYDYN
Don Juan
the fresh flavor one
OBSYDYN
Don Juan
i found the spray works a lot better than the bar.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
If not old spice red zone works well and AX (i like touch).
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
For the armpits, go for a non-perfumed ani-perspirant and invest in some good cologne (eu de toilete sp?). Also stay away from the mainstream JP Gaultier, Hugo Boss, Hilfiger etc. I recommend Very Valentino it has a fresh lemon smell, chicks love it and very very very few people know about it.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
edmond
Senior Don Juan
Remember less is better.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
micon said:
:rockon:
Ya these two are great....but if you just wear them alone that yah...but if you have other colone that your gonna put over yourself the smells well get mixed
its not that expensive...12 bucks...btw calvin klein eternity deoderant is amazing too
donjuanjovi
Senior Don Juan
Sh!t smells like cologne, and lasts all day.
I actually get compliments on the scent from chicks (thinking it was cologne).
And before Centaurion goes into cardiac arrest. lol
I'm a cologne wh0re.
... so take this reccomendation w. more than a H.S. wannabe thug's credit.