"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What kind of deodorant do u guys use to keep you smelling fresh all day?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OBSYDYN said:
right guard.

the fresh flavor one
i used to use that but it didnt really last. by the end of the day i would be smelling.

i use old spice red zone, the one that actually is an antiperspirant. the only deoderant one didnt work for me either
 

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if u have cologne i recomend u going with the same deoderant as your cologne.

If not old spice red zone works well and AX (i like touch).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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OBSYDYN said:
do you use the spray or the bar?

i found the spray works a lot better than the bar.
the bar
 

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Deodarants are for HS wannabe thugs. And if any of you fvckers mention 'Axe' I'm going to send over a ss.com hitsquad to put you out of your misery.

For the armpits, go for a non-perfumed ani-perspirant and invest in some good cologne (eu de toilete sp?). Also stay away from the mainstream JP Gaultier, Hugo Boss, Hilfiger etc. I recommend Very Valentino it has a fresh lemon smell, chicks love it and very very very few people know about it.
 

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Mitchum's makes the most effective anti-perspirants. Fact! Get the unscented Mitchum's, and a nice cologne. That way you'll be smelling classy from the cologne with the smell of sweat or some cheap deodorant scent interfering.
 

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Forget all that crap, the best smell is someone freshly showered. If you have to use deodorant try out as many as possible in order to get the exact one for yor skin.
Remember less is better.
 

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It's expensive but Giorgio Armani Acqua di Gio Deodorant Spray is great. Smells all day fresh. Also Emporio Armani He 24 Hour Deodorant is awesome.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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micon said:
It's expensive but Giorgio Armani Acqua di Gio Deodorant Spray is great. Smells all day fresh. Also Emporio Armani He 24 Hour Deodorant is awesome.

:rockon:


Ya these two are great....but if you just wear them alone that yah...but if you have other colone that your gonna put over yourself the smells well get mixed


its not that expensive...12 bucks...btw calvin klein eternity deoderant is amazing too
 

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Old spice
 

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Old Spice High Endurance Bar (Sport flavor)

Sh!t smells like cologne, and lasts all day.
I actually get compliments on the scent from chicks (thinking it was cologne).

And before Centaurion goes into cardiac arrest. lol ;)
I'm a cologne wh0re.

... so take this reccomendation w. more than a H.S. wannabe thug's credit. :D
 
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