"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I recently got this program and the first exercise includes going up to every attractive woman in a public place and asking them for the time. The problem is I do not have a license a the moment and can't walk anywhere, so I was wondering if I could do that at school. I think it might be kind of weird doing it there, but I can't really go anywhere else.
 

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Honestly, I'd recommend trying to strike up a random short convo with a girl before asking her for the time. Most people have a cel phone or a watch at this point and it can sound contrived.

If you're worried about giving yourself an out because you're too nervous to chat up someone you don't know, try placing a false time constraint before you jump into the convo.

"Hey, my friends are gonna pick me up in like 5 minutes but I was wondering if you knew any good places to eat around here?"

There are a million situational openers.
 

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MrP said:
I recently got this program and the first exercise includes going up to every attractive woman in a public place and asking them for the time. The problem is I do not have a license a the moment and can't walk anywhere, so I was wondering if I could do that at school. I think it might be kind of weird doing it there, but I can't really go anywhere else.
That sounds awful. Why can't you just talk about normal things? If it's raining outside, you can say "I love this weather." If she's reading a book, "What book is that? Looks like something I've read."

But yes...if your program is asking you to ask women what time it is, then why can't you do it in school? Why is this a question? What's the difference?
 

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I'm actually familiar with the program... It's essentially the DJ Bootcamp on ROBOT STEROIDS! (21 straight days of drills. Each day the task gets harder than the day before)

Walking up to them and asking for the time is similar to the bootcamp lesson where you say "hi" to 50-100 strangers. It just takes slightly more effort.

At a certain point - i heard this program has you do some pretty insane things. Even intentionally try to piss people off. So, i don't know if i'd be following it verbatim if i were you. But, im sure it'll work in boasting your confidence and lowering your anxiety and social fears.

You can't get someone to drop you off at a mall or something for a couple of hours? Or a busy park/street?
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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can't walk without a liscense? wtf i walk where i wanna liscense or not lol or did you mean drive? well if you can go a mile or two to a place then walk it dont be fat!
 

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I lost 65 lbs walking/running 2 miles a day and eating like hell lol its a wonderful thing being able to walk so I like tro appreciate it ;) that sentence says alot about don juanism
 

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bukowski_merit said:
I'm actually familiar with the program... It's essentially the DJ Bootcamp on ROBOT STEROIDS! (21 straight days of drills. Each day the task gets harder than the day before)

Walking up to them and asking for the time is similar to the bootcamp lesson where you say "hi" to 50-100 strangers. It just takes slightly more effort.

At a certain point - i heard this program has you do some pretty insane things. Even intentionally try to piss people off. So, i don't know if i'd be following it verbatim if i were you. But, im sure it'll work in boasting your confidence and lowering your anxiety and social fears.

You can't get someone to drop you off at a mall or something for a couple of hours? Or a busy park/street?
out of interest ...what program is this
is it just about confidence and approaching women, not being afraid of rejection ... etc
 

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kingsam said:
out of interest ...what program is this
is it just about confidence and approaching women, not being afraid of rejection ... etc
Demonic Confidence. From Lucas West.

It's a 21 day program, and each day you have to do these exercises. Each day that exercise increases in risk and balls that it takes to do it...

I know people online who sware by it who couldn't even get past day 10 or so.

I've never used it so i can't say how powerful it is. But like i said - it's very similar to the DJ boot camp, it's just wayyyy faster paced and advancement (days instead of weeks) and way more insane on what it tells you to do.

I think there's some drills in there where you have to purposely get blown out by women, and also to shout at people, etc. I can see how breaking out of your comfort zone like that could be beneficial.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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