"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MrP

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I recently got this program and the first exercise includes going up to every attractive woman in a public place and asking them for the time. The problem is I do not have a license a the moment and can't walk anywhere, so I was wondering if I could do that at school. I think it might be kind of weird doing it there, but I can't really go anywhere else.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Honestly, I'd recommend trying to strike up a random short convo with a girl before asking her for the time. Most people have a cel phone or a watch at this point and it can sound contrived.

If you're worried about giving yourself an out because you're too nervous to chat up someone you don't know, try placing a false time constraint before you jump into the convo.

"Hey, my friends are gonna pick me up in like 5 minutes but I was wondering if you knew any good places to eat around here?"

There are a million situational openers.
 

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MrP said:
I recently got this program and the first exercise includes going up to every attractive woman in a public place and asking them for the time. The problem is I do not have a license a the moment and can't walk anywhere, so I was wondering if I could do that at school. I think it might be kind of weird doing it there, but I can't really go anywhere else.
That sounds awful. Why can't you just talk about normal things? If it's raining outside, you can say "I love this weather." If she's reading a book, "What book is that? Looks like something I've read."

But yes...if your program is asking you to ask women what time it is, then why can't you do it in school? Why is this a question? What's the difference?
 

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I'm actually familiar with the program... It's essentially the DJ Bootcamp on ROBOT STEROIDS! (21 straight days of drills. Each day the task gets harder than the day before)

Walking up to them and asking for the time is similar to the bootcamp lesson where you say "hi" to 50-100 strangers. It just takes slightly more effort.

At a certain point - i heard this program has you do some pretty insane things. Even intentionally try to piss people off. So, i don't know if i'd be following it verbatim if i were you. But, im sure it'll work in boasting your confidence and lowering your anxiety and social fears.

You can't get someone to drop you off at a mall or something for a couple of hours? Or a busy park/street?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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can't walk without a liscense? wtf i walk where i wanna liscense or not lol or did you mean drive? well if you can go a mile or two to a place then walk it dont be fat!
 

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I lost 65 lbs walking/running 2 miles a day and eating like hell lol its a wonderful thing being able to walk so I like tro appreciate it ;) that sentence says alot about don juanism
 

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bukowski_merit said:
I'm actually familiar with the program... It's essentially the DJ Bootcamp on ROBOT STEROIDS! (21 straight days of drills. Each day the task gets harder than the day before)

Walking up to them and asking for the time is similar to the bootcamp lesson where you say "hi" to 50-100 strangers. It just takes slightly more effort.

At a certain point - i heard this program has you do some pretty insane things. Even intentionally try to piss people off. So, i don't know if i'd be following it verbatim if i were you. But, im sure it'll work in boasting your confidence and lowering your anxiety and social fears.

You can't get someone to drop you off at a mall or something for a couple of hours? Or a busy park/street?
out of interest ...what program is this
is it just about confidence and approaching women, not being afraid of rejection ... etc
 

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kingsam said:
out of interest ...what program is this
is it just about confidence and approaching women, not being afraid of rejection ... etc
Demonic Confidence. From Lucas West.

It's a 21 day program, and each day you have to do these exercises. Each day that exercise increases in risk and balls that it takes to do it...

I know people online who sware by it who couldn't even get past day 10 or so.

I've never used it so i can't say how powerful it is. But like i said - it's very similar to the DJ boot camp, it's just wayyyy faster paced and advancement (days instead of weeks) and way more insane on what it tells you to do.

I think there's some drills in there where you have to purposely get blown out by women, and also to shout at people, etc. I can see how breaking out of your comfort zone like that could be beneficial.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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