"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Democracy in action....

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dax

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Ok...everyone,....I've got the girl eating out of my hand, ....slept together, but it's been over a week, blah blah blah, and it's only been about a month and a half since we've been seeing each other....she's wearing me down, and I feel like a made an error, by telling her that I would be there for her if she needed me....blah blah....CRINGE! She came to my work today, and I told her that I would stop by and see her late tonight since we haven't seen each other for a while, but she didn't ask me too ( but she did ask last night) and I was busy...and she was like ok...kind of excited.....should I cancel without explanation or a phone call, just to keep her on her toes???????????? Sort of damage control for the I'll always be there line? Or should I show up tonight...(minding you I haven't talked to her the rest of today)....
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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WestCoaster

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Show up

You said you show up, do show up. A man's word should be honest and true. I haven't read anywhere on this site where lying is encouraged.

You're over-thinking everything, should I do this, I said this, she said that, what do I do? What you do is act instinctual. You said you'd be there, she was excited, show the f-ck up at her place.

Quit worrying about being over-AFC, you're not. You said you'd be there, show up. Be a man, that is being a man of your word.

If she's a b-tch and is playing games, that's a different issue. Doesn't sound like she is. There's keeping a gal on her toes and there's being honest.

Take it from some who has been stood up way too many times in my life -- it's not fun. Don't be a pr-ck, be a MAN. Show up and be glad you're there. If you're showing up every night, that's another thing. You're not.

Be a man of your word ... which is usually not encouraged by a bunch of alleged PUA's on this board who are guaranteed to be future married AFCs, like 99.9 of most PUAs in this world.

Stay true.
 
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Appreciate the words...I AM AN HONEST MAN...and I will show up...with a six-pack in hand....;)
 
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Originally posted by dax
I will show up...with a six-pack in hand....;)
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Of condoms I hope...
 
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