"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Democracy in action....

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dax

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Ok...everyone,....I've got the girl eating out of my hand, ....slept together, but it's been over a week, blah blah blah, and it's only been about a month and a half since we've been seeing each other....she's wearing me down, and I feel like a made an error, by telling her that I would be there for her if she needed me....blah blah....CRINGE! She came to my work today, and I told her that I would stop by and see her late tonight since we haven't seen each other for a while, but she didn't ask me too ( but she did ask last night) and I was busy...and she was like ok...kind of excited.....should I cancel without explanation or a phone call, just to keep her on her toes???????????? Sort of damage control for the I'll always be there line? Or should I show up tonight...(minding you I haven't talked to her the rest of today)....
What say you?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WestCoaster

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Show up

You said you show up, do show up. A man's word should be honest and true. I haven't read anywhere on this site where lying is encouraged.

You're over-thinking everything, should I do this, I said this, she said that, what do I do? What you do is act instinctual. You said you'd be there, she was excited, show the f-ck up at her place.

Quit worrying about being over-AFC, you're not. You said you'd be there, show up. Be a man, that is being a man of your word.

If she's a b-tch and is playing games, that's a different issue. Doesn't sound like she is. There's keeping a gal on her toes and there's being honest.

Take it from some who has been stood up way too many times in my life -- it's not fun. Don't be a pr-ck, be a MAN. Show up and be glad you're there. If you're showing up every night, that's another thing. You're not.

Be a man of your word ... which is usually not encouraged by a bunch of alleged PUA's on this board who are guaranteed to be future married AFCs, like 99.9 of most PUAs in this world.

Stay true.
 
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Appreciate the words...I AM AN HONEST MAN...and I will show up...with a six-pack in hand....;)
 
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Originally posted by dax
I will show up...with a six-pack in hand....;)
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Of condoms I hope...
 
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