She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Thanks boss. For me its about getting back out there - none of this is new to me which is the bad part. I have done cold approaches with success on women who don't speak 1 word of english. Back than, it was fun. Now I hid behind dating apps like tinder and qualified myself by that. Since that last post, I got rid of the dating apps and burnt all the ****ing boats!Its about tolerance. Its not much diff then a FAer or incel acceptance of abstinence. Its pathetic. I don't need another explanation on female nature or e standards. I get it.
Check red Tyler.
Good stuff Synergy1 mate.
When I started this journey, I was beta as ****. I wanted a wife and kids. I spent years, nearly a decade at pickup between LTRs, flings, ONS, FWBs, **** buddies, etc.
Who I was before and who I am now isn't the same person. There's no going back. I see female nature as it is. Not how I wish it would be.
Inundate oneself with mgtow, red pill, Peterson, pickup, and other content. I recently read a book by Ram Dass. I am not trying to be a monk nor mgtow or Peterson. I sift through what's what, I apply, keep what works, and disregard the rest.
Go lift. Go in nature. Meditate. Do yoga. Do pickup. Minimum three approaches per day. ****, say hi. Get to the point of chain gunning cold approach @ everything thin, Young attractive. Obviously, use common sense. No means no.
It only gets harder with age Playboy. Keep me updated.
There was a RMG group (one of many). I think it was the most recent podcast. One of the guys (I am terrible with names.. Women should have barcodes), a regular on the RMG podcast was going over a SMV scale.Thanks boss. For me its about getting back out there - none of this is new to me which is the bad part. I have done cold approaches with success on women who don't speak 1 word of english. Back than, it was fun. Now I hid behind dating apps like tinder and qualified myself by that. Since that last post, I got rid of the dating apps and burnt all the ****ing boats!
Agreed.Tomorrow should be a good vacation day, the last of summer. Going to get after it like the old days, and this after a date (holdover from the app).
As for three approaches per day, not enough people where I live to do that. I could do easily more than that tomrrow. Will see how demanding the women are and report back. Gotta have fun with this kinda thing! cheers
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This is also a truth. Living a docile life. No risk. No danger. No fulfillment of positive constructive aggression against a rough environment. It makes weak, docile men. Quite distasteful.Low testosterone is prevalent amongst city dwellers.
I would suggest going for an eco holiday, no women, going solo, jungle tracking, mountain climbing, water rafting, fishing etc.
Take a 1 week break every quarterly from the city and just go for some cheap eco tour. Solo would be best but for the 1st few times; bring along some buddies.