Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
I can see OP's point about asking her out for drinks and she counters with tennis, as a man should take the lead and make the plan. I probably wouldn't have taken the tennis offer either. Plus, it's a bad choice for a first date. I DO like drinks for a first date because communication skills are everything and if there's no chemistry it's easy to bail after an hour or less.As strange as it sounds, my bumble message never sent. Said failed to send. So, I sent a new one said sure, let play some tennis. What's your cell so we can setup a time/date when is good for both of us. She replied, I really do not feel comfortable in sending my cell out to someone who I've not met yet or communicated with yet, but I'd still like to play tennis. Hope we can still play.
Huh? You'd go meet me to play tennis at a tennis court where there is not many people around, but not give me your cell? I just replied. Okay. If you change your mind, feel free to message me back. Take care.
Can't win.
So, for me, it IS a flag if the woman starts wanting to change up my plan right away, especially for a first date. It tells me she's bossy, and always has to get her way. Let the man LEAD.
Now, here's where you f*ucked up: It's 2018. People don't like giving out their personal info to people they don't know. REALLY dumb reason to eject. I NEVER give out my personal cell number to OLD or even IRL dates, at least for a few months. I have a Google Voice number with an out of state area code I use. I've met a fair number of women who prefer to communicate via the OLD app until at least after the first date. Nothing wrong with that.
Good luck.
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