Well, nothing is ever black and white. I do agree activities are a great way to build rapport. However, I personally don't like Alpha females who reach out with a suggestion and then *insist* upon it. Sure they can reach out and they can make a suggestions but the 'my way or the highway' stuff doesn't work for me. I've met women recently that changed the meeting place and time because of some [insert a reason] and in the cases where I complied with their request I realized within mins of meeting them they had entitlement issues. One of these women did voluntary work for the homeless and her views on people who didn't volunteer were as if you were a self-absorbed low life, yet it was clear to me that she had this savior image of herself who should be praised and worshiped.