"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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051AV

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I have some woman that thinks I'm in love with her and chasing her? I barely know this broad I'm not friends with her on any social media, I barely even see her in the town we live in. I'm not interested in her she's got issues for one thing the second she's way too young, she's sadly mistaken I'm no where near in love with her.

I'm so fvcking tired of women with issues why is there so many women with mental health issues roaming around a guy has to be really careful who he chats up you never know. This woman I'm talking about above I don't even think she knows my name, the woman is so shy you look at her she won't give you eye contact.

I don't know why I attract mentally ill I don't go seeking them that's for damn sure.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're not alone. I can assure you of that.
 

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I have some woman that thinks I'm in love with her and chasing her? I barely know this broad I'm not friends with her on any social media, I barely even see her in the town we live in. I'm not interested in her she's got issues for one thing the second she's way too young, she's sadly mistaken I'm no where near in love with her.

I'm so fvcking tired of women with issues why is there so many women with mental health issues roaming around a guy has to be really careful who he chats up you never know. This woman I'm talking about above I don't even think she knows my name, the woman is so shy you look at her she won't give you eye contact.

I don't know why I attract mentally ill I don't go seeking them that's for damn sure.
Yeah man...

The realest of the real on this forum and out in real life know that the danger with mentally ill women (at least half of the ‘available’ dating population) isn’t them breaking your heart rather it’s them getting you into legal trouble. These bvtches are unpredictable and very dangerous.

I attract them as well. I can’t think of any reason other than subconsciously thinking I deserve them for some reason, which is a topic for an entirely different forum :confused:
 

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Yeah man...

The realest of the real on this forum and out in real life know that the danger with mentally ill women (at least half of the ‘available’ dating population) isn’t them breaking your heart rather it’s them getting you into legal trouble. These bvtches are unpredictable and very dangerous.

I attract them as well. I can’t think of any reason other than subconsciously thinking I deserve them for some reason, which is a topic for an entirely different forum :confused:
And some who provoke you to do something to get yourself into trouble. I have some friends who went down that path and ended up doing some time. It really sucks.
 
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