JLW said:
No. This isn't delusional self confidence. Assuming a girl is attracted to you before knowing either way is simply being optimistic..You have no reason to believe that she's NOT interested, so why not just assume that she IS interested?
It would only be delusional self confidence if you had good reasons to believe she was NOT interested, but you acted like she was/is interested. And any sort of delusion is bad because it isn't what reality is telling you.
Perhaps I was unclear by describing this frame I am asking your opinions about. The frame is
Code:
My frame
NEVER COMPROMISE
Assume I am the s*it.
Don't give a flying **** if anyone thinks otherwise
Stop caring about how anyone thinks of you
Because I tried this and basically everyone treated me like how I treated myself. And then I fell out of frame because I started thinking about that.
Anyway, I meant something like this, not delusional thinking that everyone loves you, more like the mindset that everyone loves you and if they don't they're just missing out. Except being so confident in this it seems delusional. Does DJ theory (Lol) and your opinions think this is an optimal state? Or is it too much?
