Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Deleting my myspace.

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I've had enough of myspace, and it's time to get rid of it. It's just a bunch of retards posting fruity bulletins every 5 minutes about how bored they are. There's honestly no reason to keep it. If I really wanted to contact my friends, then I'd have their phone number. Not only this, but it'll make me have to get a chick's phone number, and not their myspace (which if I'm feeling like a ***** I'll contact them on myspace instead of getting their digits...). But no more! F*ck myspace!!!




Who's with me?!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Me and my girlfriend deleted ours together. Now she broke up with me and brought hers back.
 

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girlsarecrazy said:
Me and my girlfriend deleted ours together. Now she broke up with me and brought hers back.


DAm!!!!! WHAT A HEARTBREAK,, :box: u should bang her..


I agree that myspace is boring!! But all it is to me is i chek email there and chekc comments!! THats all i use it for!!!!
 

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its stupid i deleted mine after two weeks

i thought it was cool because people were hyped about it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Myspace is awesome. I've picked off quite a few girls off myspace that heard my name in their school or area, and they message me, obviously interested.

Just because you guys have like 5 friends including Tom doesn't mean myspace sucks. It's the ONLY place I know where I can see somebody before I meet them, talk to them, check their pix without asking to see them.. its awesome.
 

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shydude said:
I agree that myspace is boring!! But all it is to me is i chek email there and chekc comments!! THats all i use it for!!!!
Whole heartedly agree. Only email and comments.
 

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how do you delete it?
 

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I guess you can pick up chicks from it, but the negatives outweight the positives. When it gets addictive it's a major time waster, and the chat rooms are generally a bunch of people complaining about how bored they are. Pretty lame.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DogFashionDisco said:
it'll make me have to get a chick's phone number, and not their myspace (which if I'm feeling like a ***** I'll contact them on myspace instead of getting their digits...). But no more! F*ck myspace!!!




Who's with me?!
Thats just because you have issues you need to straighten out. You shouldnt even CONSIDER gettin a girls myspace. Dont even bring it up....ever.
 

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AC/DC said:
Myspace is awesome. I've picked off quite a few girls off myspace that heard my name in their school or area, and they message me, obviously interested.

Just because you guys have like 5 friends including Tom doesn't mean myspace sucks. It's the ONLY place I know where I can see somebody before I meet them, talk to them, check their pix without asking to see them.. its awesome.

Actually I had about 200 friends. And I knew about half of them. The other half were bands.

True, but I want to ask them that crap in PERSON.


oakraiderz2 said:
Thats just because you have issues you need to straighten out. You shouldnt even CONSIDER gettin a girls myspace. Dont even bring it up....ever.
Yeah I know, and now I'm making sure I don't. My myspace is gone, and I don't plan on getting another one.
 

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myspace is great. if you have a little self control you wont waste all your time on it...its smooth for picking up chicks in your spare time (or if youre sick like me).
 

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Dogfish said:
how do you delete it?

Under account settings, there should be something that says cancel account.


dannowillbookem said:
myspace is great. if you have a little self control you wont waste all your time on it...its smooth for picking up chicks in your spare time (or if youre sick like me).
Well I'd rather do it in person. And in my spare time, improve myself. :up:
 

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Deleting your myspace is a stupid idea... You know how much it can help your game? Girls i meet will find me on there and bam theyre talking to me. Its great to say to a girl "look me up on myspace". Unless your some desperate AFC who really needs to close that second.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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deadaim89 said:
Deleting your myspace is a stupid idea... You know how much it can help your game? Girls i meet will find me on there and bam theyre talking to me. Its great to say to a girl "look me up on myspace". Unless your some desperate AFC who really needs to close that second.

Uh. That's stupid.

Last time I checked, talking online wasn't the most DJ thing to do. Plus I'd rather talk in person or at least on the phone. You don't get the same interaction online. The only way to show emotion is through those gay little icon things: :yawn: :cry: :down: :D :rock: :box:

At least when you're talking on the phone you show it through the tone in your voice or by laughing. And it only gets better in person (ie kino). :rock:
 

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DogFashionDisco said:
Uh. That's stupid.

Last time I checked, talking online wasn't the most DJ thing to do. Plus I'd rather talk in person or at least on the phone. You don't get the same interaction online. The only way to show emotion is through those gay little icon things: :yawn: :cry: :down: :D :rock: :box:

At least when you're talking on the phone you show it through the tone in your voice or by laughing. And it only gets better in person (ie kino). :rock:
Myspace is a catalyst for meeting people. Its called self control like someone previously said. I have girls on my friends list that i know but never see. I changed a pic and got attention from them. Its not to talk to the people you talk to often; you can keep in touch with people you havent seen in a while...good luck with out it.
 

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myspace is kinda gay. i still keep mine around cus i dont see wut deleting it is gonna do....
 

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myspace sucks. I actually deleted mine once a while back. I held out without for a few months but my friends would plan everything thorugh the comments. So I was on the out half the time. So now im back on it. Eh just go on once a day.
 

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Yeah myspace is pretty gay. Even if youre talkin to a girl for a while on there it still feels like a blinddate when you meet them for the 1st time in person.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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