"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've had enough of myspace, and it's time to get rid of it. It's just a bunch of retards posting fruity bulletins every 5 minutes about how bored they are. There's honestly no reason to keep it. If I really wanted to contact my friends, then I'd have their phone number. Not only this, but it'll make me have to get a chick's phone number, and not their myspace (which if I'm feeling like a ***** I'll contact them on myspace instead of getting their digits...). But no more! F*ck myspace!!!




Who's with me?!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Me and my girlfriend deleted ours together. Now she broke up with me and brought hers back.
 

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girlsarecrazy said:
Me and my girlfriend deleted ours together. Now she broke up with me and brought hers back.


DAm!!!!! WHAT A HEARTBREAK,, :box: u should bang her..


I agree that myspace is boring!! But all it is to me is i chek email there and chekc comments!! THats all i use it for!!!!
 

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its stupid i deleted mine after two weeks

i thought it was cool because people were hyped about it
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Myspace is awesome. I've picked off quite a few girls off myspace that heard my name in their school or area, and they message me, obviously interested.

Just because you guys have like 5 friends including Tom doesn't mean myspace sucks. It's the ONLY place I know where I can see somebody before I meet them, talk to them, check their pix without asking to see them.. its awesome.
 

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shydude said:
I agree that myspace is boring!! But all it is to me is i chek email there and chekc comments!! THats all i use it for!!!!
Whole heartedly agree. Only email and comments.
 

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how do you delete it?
 

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I guess you can pick up chicks from it, but the negatives outweight the positives. When it gets addictive it's a major time waster, and the chat rooms are generally a bunch of people complaining about how bored they are. Pretty lame.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DogFashionDisco said:
it'll make me have to get a chick's phone number, and not their myspace (which if I'm feeling like a ***** I'll contact them on myspace instead of getting their digits...). But no more! F*ck myspace!!!




Who's with me?!
Thats just because you have issues you need to straighten out. You shouldnt even CONSIDER gettin a girls myspace. Dont even bring it up....ever.
 

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AC/DC said:
Myspace is awesome. I've picked off quite a few girls off myspace that heard my name in their school or area, and they message me, obviously interested.

Just because you guys have like 5 friends including Tom doesn't mean myspace sucks. It's the ONLY place I know where I can see somebody before I meet them, talk to them, check their pix without asking to see them.. its awesome.

Actually I had about 200 friends. And I knew about half of them. The other half were bands.

True, but I want to ask them that crap in PERSON.


oakraiderz2 said:
Thats just because you have issues you need to straighten out. You shouldnt even CONSIDER gettin a girls myspace. Dont even bring it up....ever.
Yeah I know, and now I'm making sure I don't. My myspace is gone, and I don't plan on getting another one.
 

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myspace is great. if you have a little self control you wont waste all your time on it...its smooth for picking up chicks in your spare time (or if youre sick like me).
 

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Dogfish said:
how do you delete it?

Under account settings, there should be something that says cancel account.


dannowillbookem said:
myspace is great. if you have a little self control you wont waste all your time on it...its smooth for picking up chicks in your spare time (or if youre sick like me).
Well I'd rather do it in person. And in my spare time, improve myself. :up:
 

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Deleting your myspace is a stupid idea... You know how much it can help your game? Girls i meet will find me on there and bam theyre talking to me. Its great to say to a girl "look me up on myspace". Unless your some desperate AFC who really needs to close that second.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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deadaim89 said:
Deleting your myspace is a stupid idea... You know how much it can help your game? Girls i meet will find me on there and bam theyre talking to me. Its great to say to a girl "look me up on myspace". Unless your some desperate AFC who really needs to close that second.

Uh. That's stupid.

Last time I checked, talking online wasn't the most DJ thing to do. Plus I'd rather talk in person or at least on the phone. You don't get the same interaction online. The only way to show emotion is through those gay little icon things: :yawn: :cry: :down: :D :rock: :box:

At least when you're talking on the phone you show it through the tone in your voice or by laughing. And it only gets better in person (ie kino). :rock:
 

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DogFashionDisco said:
Uh. That's stupid.

Last time I checked, talking online wasn't the most DJ thing to do. Plus I'd rather talk in person or at least on the phone. You don't get the same interaction online. The only way to show emotion is through those gay little icon things: :yawn: :cry: :down: :D :rock: :box:

At least when you're talking on the phone you show it through the tone in your voice or by laughing. And it only gets better in person (ie kino). :rock:
Myspace is a catalyst for meeting people. Its called self control like someone previously said. I have girls on my friends list that i know but never see. I changed a pic and got attention from them. Its not to talk to the people you talk to often; you can keep in touch with people you havent seen in a while...good luck with out it.
 

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myspace is kinda gay. i still keep mine around cus i dont see wut deleting it is gonna do....
 

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myspace sucks. I actually deleted mine once a while back. I held out without for a few months but my friends would plan everything thorugh the comments. So I was on the out half the time. So now im back on it. Eh just go on once a day.
 

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Yeah myspace is pretty gay. Even if youre talkin to a girl for a while on there it still feels like a blinddate when you meet them for the 1st time in person.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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