"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Deleted facebook

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zekko

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Ever get laid through Facebook?
Just curious.
 

skinnyguy

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I deleted fb a year ago and just reactivated it. I was missing way too much social stuff. You can choose how often you log on. But fb is a chance to build social value which is as important to women as looks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MtnMan

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I deleted my FB for 2 or 3 years, and recently signed up again. Too many of my friends use it as primary communication, and I don't want to cut them out. Glad I signed up again, although I don't check it that often.
Also its great for rooting out SIF's when using OLD. Saved me this week once already.
 

El Suave

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I just activated mine cause I know future employers look you up, so I chose carefully what to make public as to make me look good to them.
 

pdx1138

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maybe it's just the people/age group I friended, but the staggering level of self narcissism alone was enough to drive me outta there.

I'm glad to be out of it and have zero need to go back.
 
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