"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zekko

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Ever get laid through Facebook?
Just curious.
 

skinnyguy

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I deleted fb a year ago and just reactivated it. I was missing way too much social stuff. You can choose how often you log on. But fb is a chance to build social value which is as important to women as looks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MtnMan

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I deleted my FB for 2 or 3 years, and recently signed up again. Too many of my friends use it as primary communication, and I don't want to cut them out. Glad I signed up again, although I don't check it that often.
Also its great for rooting out SIF's when using OLD. Saved me this week once already.
 

El Suave

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I just activated mine cause I know future employers look you up, so I chose carefully what to make public as to make me look good to them.
 

pdx1138

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maybe it's just the people/age group I friended, but the staggering level of self narcissism alone was enough to drive me outta there.

I'm glad to be out of it and have zero need to go back.
 
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