You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Greatzinc4 said:find another guy you like and quit being a drama queen...you will be fine
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
888 said:This is absolutely not the place for this kind of advice. It isn't the kind of stuff we talk about here.
inb4 flood of guys trying to run game on OP
Iceberg said:Actually, it will be a flood of guys trying to insult the girl. Because she's a woman and they're angry at the entire gender.
But with that said, I don't believe this story. Or that the person who wrote it is actually a girl.
As if a girl in a bad situation says, "I know where I'll find help! On an all-men's forum!"
BeginningDJ said:Do what I do sometimes:
I put my hands over my head sitting in the shower and rock back and forth. I wipe the imaginary mascara off my eyes and stick my finger down my throat to make sure all the imaginary semen is gone. I stand up and spread my ass cheeks to make sure it's clean from the imaginary rapists curn. After, I then make a thread claiming all men are animals while my frozen burrito thaws.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.