"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Degrading women
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Chickfight
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"Since we all came from a woman, got our name from a woman, and our game from a woman, I wonder why we take from our women, why we rape our women. Do we hate our women? I think it’s time we killed for our women, be real to our women, try to heal our women. And if we don’t we’ll have a race of babies that will hate the ladies, who make the babies"
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Chickfight
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Maybe he was, maybe he wasn't, but the message applies to people of any skin color.f283000 said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8-3XPPA-vA
Tupac After
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JaEcqnZ2Ezw&feature=related
Who do you think got laid more?
Chickfight
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In the after video, he talking about a different issue and I agree with his views in it as well. He's talking about B!TCHES and HOES, but notice he says "if you fvcking with a cool female that's all good". His message is that you gotta stop giving attention to and fighting eachother for B!TCHES and HOES. (aka putting them on a pedestal and bros before hoes) He has the sense to distinguish females from on another and not just generally disrespect them all, because there ARE a lot of cool females out there, but you won't get to experience any of that coolness if you hate all women. Just like you see men as individuals and show respect where respect is due, the same counts for women. Listen to "Never call you B!TCH again" which was recorded towards the end of his life.
Chickfight said:
Right. Before he didn't difrentiate and afterwards he did. Before he wondered why women got treated like crap and seemed to like it, afterwards he knew. All women don't deserve your respect, and just like with men respect is earned. Putting women on a pedestal like he was in the first video, disrespects yourself.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
That's not degrading to women; it's just incorrect. Go look at peopleofwalmart.com and tell me every woman you see there is your type.
I don't think what you said is degrading. But it's still a poor way of thinking. It comes off as you are either desperate, or have no standards (or both). A woman should have to prove her worth to you somehow (even if it's just by being attractive), and shouldn't be accepted for the simple fact she has a pvssy.
Unless you are saying you simply verbalize these things when you don't mean them, and that is what you are asking about? If that is the case, all you can do is think before you talk and don't let it out... not much we can do for ya here, if that's the case.