Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
LMAO..Any more advicePapiChulo said:Nah, degrading women is when you pee on their faces and such.
Tupac was talking about the black woman not women in general.Chickfight said:Imma be awesome and quote Tupac
"Since we all came from a woman, got our name from a woman, and our game from a woman, I wonder why we take from our women, why we rape our women. Do we hate our women? I think it’s time we killed for our women, be real to our women, try to heal our women. And if we don’t we’ll have a race of babies that will hate the ladies, who make the babies"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Maybe he was, maybe he wasn't, but the message applies to people of any skin color.f283000 said:Tupac was talking about the black woman not women in general.
Chickfight said:The before is just him realizing you can't be a "nice guy" to women. Yeah. we all agree on that around here. But since when is being a nice guy about giving respect to women?? Nice guys don't respect themselves and they don't respect women enough to be REAL and honest about their own masculinity. Nice guys don't give anything real, they just take and take like a leech with their neediness.
In the after video, he talking about a different issue and I agree with his views in it as well. He's talking about B!TCHES and HOES, but notice he says "if you fvcking with a cool female that's all good". His message is that you gotta stop giving attention to and fighting eachother for B!TCHES and HOES. (aka putting them on a pedestal and bros before hoes) He has the sense to distinguish females from on another and not just generally disrespect them all, because there ARE a lot of cool females out there, but you won't get to experience any of that coolness if you hate all women. Just like you see men as individuals and show respect where respect is due, the same counts for women. Listen to "Never call you B!TCH again" which was recorded towards the end of his life.
PapiChulo said:Nah, degrading women is when you pee on their faces and such.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Warrior74 said:Tupac Before
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8-3XPPA-vA
Tupac After
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JaEcqnZ2Ezw&feature=related
Who do you think got laid more?