HollowHorizon
Senior Don Juan
Whats your def, On Insecure..
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Definition Of Insecure
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RawkinKaoticStyle
Senior Don Juan
me... at times
KiInCollege
Senior Don Juan
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Calling the same girl more than three times in a day.
Relying on women to make you feel valuable.
Talking too much or saying something that's out of place.
One of the first things AFCs should rid themselves of.
Something a woman or a DJ can smell a mile away.
Relying on women to make you feel valuable.
Talking too much or saying something that's out of place.
One of the first things AFCs should rid themselves of.
Something a woman or a DJ can smell a mile away.
squirrels
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Being afraid that you're not good enough.
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Senior Don Juan
insecure is just like it says. "not secure" think about it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
2xp
Don Juan
thinking about insecurity. stop asking questions like this. u loose time. a secure guy doesn't know what insecurity or security is. you just do hwat you got to do.
reminds me of people trying to define what manhood is and trying to have all the manly attributes. they end up looking like gay people.
reminds me of people trying to define what manhood is and trying to have all the manly attributes. they end up looking like gay people.