HollowHorizon
Senior Don Juan
Whats your def, On Insecure..
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Definition Of Insecure
- Thread starter HollowHorizon
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RawkinKaoticStyle
Senior Don Juan
me... at times
KiInCollege
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 21, 2002
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Calling the same girl more than three times in a day.
Relying on women to make you feel valuable.
Talking too much or saying something that's out of place.
One of the first things AFCs should rid themselves of.
Something a woman or a DJ can smell a mile away.
Relying on women to make you feel valuable.
Talking too much or saying something that's out of place.
One of the first things AFCs should rid themselves of.
Something a woman or a DJ can smell a mile away.
squirrels
Master Don Juan
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Being afraid that you're not good enough.
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Senior Don Juan
insecure is just like it says. "not secure" think about it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
2xp
Don Juan
thinking about insecurity. stop asking questions like this. u loose time. a secure guy doesn't know what insecurity or security is. you just do hwat you got to do.
reminds me of people trying to define what manhood is and trying to have all the manly attributes. they end up looking like gay people.
reminds me of people trying to define what manhood is and trying to have all the manly attributes. they end up looking like gay people.