"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Define ESP!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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basically, the sixth sense ... the ability to "read into someone's mind".
"ESP", if I'm not mistaking the context of your question, is just an excuse to take a guess on the chick.
example from Mystery:
"think of a number between 1 and 4... right now"
you would hold out ur left hand as you say "1", and would out ur right hand as you say "4". thus creating a spectrum from 1 to 4.
when you say "rightnow" you'd snap ur fingers at the position of 3 in the spectrum. and if you rush her decision, she would think the number 3(90% chance?). so basicly you've just read her mind.
1 to 10 also works(its mostly the number 7), but more chances for you to guess wrong.
Like this.
When I was in 6th grade, the school told us something bad happened that's all we knew. For some odd reason, I felt this preminition that something happened to the WTC. No one told me, but I could sense for a split second the WTC were under attack.
I've had it with lotto numbers too. You just can't control it, it comes and goes as it pleases. It's weird stuff.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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That is SO fucking true.Originally posted by JesterX
i think some people use esp short for especially.