"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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default line to use when i cant think of anything

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what a default opener that works everywhere that i can use if i cant think of anything, what u guys use?

NO STAY AWAY LAYLA I DONT WANT YOU COME HERE AND SAYING "JUST SAY HI".
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Agressor
what a default opener that works everywhere that i can use if i cant think of anything, what u guys use?

NO STAY AWAY LAYLA I DONT WANT YOU COME HERE AND SAYING "JUST SAY HI".
Saying "hi" alwasy works, but you also can use the "I wanted to find out what you were like"

Your mind is in the wrong FRAME, You have to realize its not about a LINE, your not trying to do the impossible, all your doing is having a conversation with a woman (much like you would with your sister, aunt whoever) the only thing you should internally think is… “do I want to continue this further, is she worth MY time”
 

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Re: Re: default line to use when i cant think of anything

Originally posted by yunghova35
Saying "hi" alwasy works, but you also can use the "I wanted to find out what you were like"

Your mind is in the wrong FRAME, You have to realize its not about a LINE, your not trying to do the impossible, all your doing is having a conversation with a woman (much like you would with your sister, aunt whoever) the only thing you should internally think is… “do I want to continue this further, is she worth MY time”
but that line is ****, its what a AFC would say its for GIRLY MEN
 

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Originally posted by Agressor
NO STAY AWAY LAYLA I DONT WANT YOU COME HERE AND SAYING "JUST SAY HI".
....Maybe if you would read my whole thread, you would see that I also included things to say, besides "hi".:rolleyes:
 

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Agressor most of the threads you are starting are **** buddy.

Like that one about the alphas on an island that you have also posted on other forums all together.. wtf man?

Now you are asking for a default line? You sound like a robot, infact i think u might just be some kind of bot. A girly afc type bot.

Come on man get a new patch or something and upgrade your self.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Agressor
what a default opener that works everywhere that i can use if i cant think of anything, what u guys use?

NO STAY AWAY LAYLA I DONT WANT YOU COME HERE AND SAYING "JUST SAY HI".
If you have nothing to say, don't speak.

If you find you ALWAYS end up having nothing to say, you need to develop some social skills. "Small talk" isn't always something that comes naturally...it's an acquired skill, even if it IS filler. :p

Any kind of generic, catch-all default line is instantly recognizable as just that.
 

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I have to worry about this, only when i think about it. Just pretend its your sister or something, and kinda make small talk with her clothes/fashion w/e. All in all just dont think about it, just put your head out there, and dont be so conserved, this way you can easily catch anything she says and make a ****y funny line.
 

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Lines are overrated anyway - relying on them just hinders your ability to be spontaneous and creative, and tailor your conversation to the surrounding situation.

"Hi," and it's many MANY variations are definetly the way to go though... I don't know why anyone would adamantly oppose a standard greeting. It shows friendliness, and a desire to converse - that's pretty much what you want, yeah?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by felony
Agressor most of the threads you are starting are **** buddy.

Like that one about the alphas on an island that you have also posted on other forums all together.. wtf man?

Now you are asking for a default line? You sound like a robot, infact i think u might just be some kind of bot. A girly afc type bot.

Come on man get a new patch or something and upgrade your self.
bb.com rox
 

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