"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Deeptan tanning pills - anyone tried this?

Shiftkey

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LOL I also got Frosted Opal, but my ancestery is more than one of the selections so I don't know how accurate it is. I also have hazel eyes, which isn't a selection. The best part about tanning at the salon for awhile was that it raised my sun tolerance greatly. I can be outside for over an hour, no sunblock, and I won't notice a difference. And that's over a year and a half since I've gone to a salon. Before I tanned at a salon I would burn in 30 minutes. My skin is now really white (since I haven't tanned recently), but it's not as pale looking as it used to be.

If I spend about 25-30 mins a day running around outside, it takes about 2 weeks for me to see any change in my skin tone, and then it usually peaks and I don't get any darker. Which means I'm no longer ghost white, but have a healthier looking "whiteness" if you know what I mean.
That sounds normal. If you want to get darker, you need to stay outside longer as your sun tolerance increases.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I like how the link on the deeptan site with "contact us" is just a picture.
 

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Hey Shiftkey, those pills still look enticing, suspect as they may be. It would be great if you could take them for a couple weeks and report back :)
 
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